Archive - Intimate Matters

An advice column for today's world

Sep 23 •

August 2025

The End of Loneliness

Today’s post is something I wrote for the New Yorker—available here. (Physical copy coming out next week.) It’s about the consequences of using AI to…

Published on Small Potatoes • Aug 18

The special sauce for transformation

How your personal development can change the world

Aug 6 •

June 2025

Social Media Hellscape

tldr: revealing the parts work process around my deep resistance to being online

Jun 5 •

May 2025

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